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...okay, I may reconsider getting some "help" to regain my feminity at some point in the future.  It appears that the "good" fat on my body has disappeared along with the bad fat, and while I enjoy being in shape I feel less womanly than I did.  Maybe it's just that I spent the last 5 years with hormone-induced or breastfeeding-induced hypertrophy of the breasts, but one thing I can say is I miss my boobs.  Maybe I just need some time to adjust to being the size I was in early puberty...